Quick Question Please ..

[Mrsbluesky99]

Would you consider a drink driving ban on a person you’ve just met a big red flag… Thoughts please.

Thank U.

[swanlake]

The only people who I know who have had a drink driving ban are heavy drinkers. My abuser also drank and drove because they just don’t care about anyone else.
For me it would be a sign of addiction or heavy substance use but possibly an abuser. I wonder if sometimes they use alcohol to numb themselves to how horrible they are.

[AloneWolf]

My ex has a history of drink driving ban and still drink drives now. He doesn’t give a d**n about anyone else. Would be a huge red flag for me now if I ever considered another relationship (which is highly unlikely after how much damage he has done to me).

[Happybelle]

Yes. My abuser got caught but it was drunk in charge of. They are now on a driving ban for drug driving instead. They still say it’s not their fault!!! Got stopped for a totally other reason so blames that on the ban. Red flag, beacon,balloon. Personally if anybody thinks it’s ok to have enough to drink that they could get and get in a car and drive it has little thought for anyone else. I would say it’s a very selfish trait at the very least.

[Mrsbluesky99]

Absolutely guys ..

He is blocked! Thanks but no thanks.

[StrongLife]

They hide their drinking initially. The ex got a drink driving ban as well. Imagine he would have gotten more by now. Why he did so much drinking is beyond me. Always a drink in his hand.

[HaPea]

My partner is an alcoholic. 100% it’s a red flag and I’d run a mile. He’s just lucky he’s not been caught but the next time he does it I have been advised to call the police.

[StrongLife]

Yes if this was happening it would make me not continue after situation with various drinkers I know.

It’s easy to choose soft drink instead

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