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    • #127298
      Eyesopening
      Participant

      I’ve been away for some weeks now, still in contact.
      On the phone he said he was talking about me all day. I asked to who?
      He said he saw two male friends who recently had kids, he said ‘things really get harder when you have kids, and women are crazy around pregnancy with their hormones’

      I was speechless…i thought this was so rude. But I honestly don’t know what’s disrespect or normal anymore…

    • #127304
      maddog
      Participant

      If you find him rude, he’s a w*******n. Better left on the towel. Most men are kind and good. Your warning lights are working. Those waring lights matter.

      • #127316
        Hawthorn
        Participant

        “Better left on the towel”. Thanks for that Maddog it gave me a giggle this morning!

    • #127313
      Secretlife
      Participant

      My husband blames the menopause for everything that’s wrong in our relationship. Thank goodness I have now learnt the true meaning of emotional abuse. Abusers have to blame someone for their behaviour.

    • #127319
      Jedi warrior
      Participant

      My husband mother-in-law and daughter all blame the menopause too for finally walking away ..just makes you realise how these men have no awareness of their abusive behavior ..

    • #127339
      gettingtired
      Participant

      Whenever I’m on my period I usually get told that’s why I’m being moody or that’s why I’m being a b**ch. So things will get blamed on my time of the month.

    • #127449
      Orangerainbow
      Participant

      Mine just blamed me for everything. Before he left it was like a light switched and he withdrew affection..even though it was tokenly given.

    • #127502
      Pears2021
      Participant

      Mine said (detail removed by Moderator) to his (detail removed by Moderator) that women are so stupid. He was referring to when he met me on a dating site- He said he’d just send the same messages to 50 women in a row, a few times a day. Considering the amount of rubbish I’m going through in my life now, well I feel like such a fool.

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