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Hi,
I have been silly and done something. (detail removed by Moderator) I blocked him a while back. And so did a few of my mates. However, I do have one person that only looks now again. As he is writing so much on his social media about me. Anyhow the person looked and told me what he said. So I stupidly unblocked him and went on to have a look. One of the messages says
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This has got to me. Because when we were together it took me a long time to go to the police because I didn’t want him to get in trouble. I also did a lot of my grieving about why we were in the relationship. I didn’t want to go but I had no choice. The whole thing was killing me. Yes, I am trying to get on with my life. But it is not easy and I am doing everything in my power to move on. So maybe I am looking like I am ok. But inside I am dying. I am not a n********t, how can he be so cruel? I feel like I might have not helped myself by unblocking him as the police might think, why did I do that? Maybe I am a n********t? I don’t know. I loved that man so much, and still do in some ways. And I feel sorry for him. But I had to report for several reasons. I know I am doing the right thing. But it is so hard. -
Hello,
Thank you for your post. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. That must have been really upsetting to see- he knows by saying those things it will get to you. He knows what buttons to press and what your triggers are.
even if coming from the right place it might be best for people to not tell you about his social media posts. you need time away from him for your recovery and safety.
You can access free online courses created by or in partnership with therapists specialising in trauma at Bloom. These courses can be accessed in your own time and at your own pace and cover topics such as trauma, abuse and boundaries.
Take care and keep posting
Lisa
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