Smear campaign

[Twix]

He’s taken to social media now to call me a cheat, in addition to telling everyone he knows the same & none of it’s true, I’m so annoyed by it. I am rising above it & not responding or getting drawn in but it’s just another form of attack on my character. Thankfully those who know me know it’s not true, I never thought he’d stoop so low.

[Footballfan1]

They won’t believe it Twix.
They will see it as revenge.

Keep your head held up high.

My ex told a family member the other day all about my multiple affairs.
It was all made up nonsense.
X

[Twix]

It’s awful isn’t it, the lies they tell, he said he’d ruin my credibility & tell everyone this, it’ll be my career next I can see it coming. Did you report any of it?

[Footballfan1]

He can’t harm your career though the lies.
I listed it in my solicitor statement, not every time, just in general that he was obsessed with affairs that were none existent.
It’s really hard, we feel ashamed, embarrassed, even guilty that we might have done those things, even though we know we didn’t.

Most decent people will realise it’s lies.
Stay strong and believe in yourself.
Xx

[Twix]

Thank you for the reassurance x

[Footballfan1]

We feel panicked, we feel guilty, but the truth is, it only us that is concerned.
Xx

[Eggshells]

We all know that most won’t believe it.
Any that do aren’t worth your concern. It hurts now but as people see what he’s doing, the good ones will support you and that’ll be cathartic and empowering for you.

Are you able to talk to your boss at work to pre-empt any attempt he might make to cause trouble there?

[Mellow]

I’m going through it now he’s making up lies and telling other women while kids are there they are sick individuals

[Hereforhelp]

Yep! I am apparently always having affairs, could never be trusted, including female friends. He tells people he loves me but I am mentally unstable… funny that, he left his ‘mentally unstable’ wife to raise our children on my own though so he had the freedom to carry on his career and hiding funds/money… itnis disgusting but.. true friends won’t believe a word and hopefully if you continue to use the grey rock method he will stop his lies

You have got this, you are doing so well.as it is shocking how low they stoop. My husband totally shocked me with the rubbish he said to try and get to me.

HFH ❤️

[Twix]

It’s insane how they think they can do these things & that they’ll be believed, my close friends know it not to be true & work are aware & incredibly supportive.
It is odd how they say we’re so mentally unwell but as you say happy for us to have the kids 🤦‍♀️ all cruel words at the end of it. If anything he’s ruining his own reputation, it’ll all come to light & eventually everyone will know who he really is.

[Camel]

These men routinely bad mouth us to everyone who will listen and there’s generally not much we can do about it. But public posts on social media can’t be taken back so he’s really shot himself in the foot. Take screenshots of his posts and any comments. They may come in handy if you go to court. Keep on ignoring him as there’s really nothing you could say to shut him down.

[Twix]

Thanks Camel that’s helpful to know, I’ve stayed off main social sites for the last 5 months but those who care are keeping me informed.

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