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Yes it’s not made easy… he’s been arrested but (detail removed by moderator)… I am now homeless with 3 kids who will have their lives disrupted totally…he gets to stay in tour 3 bed family home alone.. I am working so Carnt afford a solicited he will get legal aid.. I get social services scrutinising my every move.. he gets no haste from them… I have to sort out child care while I’m at work… he doesn’t have them…it just seems all one sided to me.. he stays with his family till trial and has bail conditions… then he goes to our home and we are stuck…system unfair… but this time I don’t care… we will beat it and make it alone.. this time I am determined to end this once and for all… it’s gone on too long… just soo one sided… why is there not more help for those who try to do the right thing…. I know tmz I will be crying with it all.. just the tiny bits of strength that keeps me going x*x
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My heart goes out to you. You are so strong to do this with 3 kids and keep working. I have been where you have but with one child. Things seem dark now and you feel alone. The system isn’t fair. You have something he doesn’t. You are a decent person and a great mom. You will look back one day and thank god you escaped. He will remain the same. His life will go on getting worse. Yours will get better. 3 years on I have my own home a loving partner and a good life. He has nothingxxx
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Thankyou Iwon for your words of encouragement….what you said is soo true.. yes I’ve got to do this..it will get better long term… ayanna we live in a rental property.. I’ve been there 10+ years but him lot longer he had property before met me… it’s in his name.. won’t put me on tenancy… he’s always had this control… and always used to tell me to go get out of his house….and after bail conditions are off he will be back with anger at having been forced to stay away…..he has no shame in us having to leave with nowhere to go and maximum disruption to kids lives…out of sight out of mind… we will be tossed and discarded…with not a second thought… I understand a little how his mind works… but the children they will feel it in future..
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Contact your local council. They will tell you they have no responsibility, but they actually are. They are not interested if you are on the street with the children, so they will help you with your tenancy probably. The best way is to meet face in face, because over the phone they are usually telling to call charity organisations etc, but if you meet somebody personally, this is a different thing.
You should stay in the property. And contact local council for alternative accommodation to move in. Until this is not provided to you, your landlord can do nothing. But you should pay bills and the rent.
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