Been feeling really off balance this week as I’m still waiting to give my statement and having all the usual doubts about what I’ve been through. Have a counselling assessment next week and the victim support worker has sent me details of the freedom project. Then i spoke to the counsellor who is helping my eldest and what she said really made me realise the damage my ex has done him, which in turn made me feel I am on the right track and must carry on. Tonight my youngest is begging to see him again and i have had to try and explain why he can’t. Back to square one of doubting myself again! I don’t recognise the person Ive become and can’t believe i didn’t see it all this time.
Hi WTG, wow, you’ve been busy, making strides, good to read. Wondering if there is anyone else in the family or a friend, someone your youngest has a relationship with that can back you up by having a chat with him/her, sometimes it can help x