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18th July 2025 at 12:22 pm #176470
Sad and alone
ParticipantFed up of recent childish behaviour and being downright spiteful.
I had an event at my home with members of the public attending. During that time he informed me how he felt uncomfortable in his own home (even though it was being held in an outbuilding and away from him) and felt left out and said that I should have asked him to help out. Despite (timeframe removed by Moderator) him ranting about how horrible and nasty and evil and twisted and frigid I was, I was meant to be sensitive to his feelings?
After another barrage of abuse being told how horrible I am I retreated to our office space. Much later he came and said how he had wanted to take our elderly pet out and how I had ruined it by being the way I am.
Again I informed him I was going somewhere which he acknowledged. Not long after he rang saying don’t bother going there as he still wanted to take our elderly pet out and we could do what I needed on the way. But obviously I was already there which I told him and said why didn’t you say that short while ago I left. To which he hung up and (timeframe removed by Moderator) gone with our pet.
Why are they so childish and spiteful? What with that and the little comments under the breath, after we’re meant to have had a “truce”. Still winding up. It’s like they can’t help themselves. I feel he always has something to say and if he gets it wrong he never apologises, just tries to justify himself.
Just venting really. Had a s**t week and I can’t see it getting any better. Mainly because I feel so beat down that I can’t bring myself to try and be cheerful or upbeat and act like I don’t care about the things he says. For him to act “normal”, lull my stupid brain into a false sense of security, only to take the next possible opportunity to belittle or criticise or judge me.
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21st July 2025 at 2:30 pm #176522
Lisa
Main ModeratorHi Sad and alone,
It sounds exhausting for you, I hope it is helping to vent on here. Keep posting when you need to, this is a safe space for you.
Take care,
Lisa
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