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My abusive husband left almost (detail removed by moderator) weeks now. It was always emotions and physical abuse but in thebeeks before he left it became physical on 2 separate occasions. He accused me of having affair which I haven’t…a friendship but nothing else! I’ve been coping since he left I work full time and have 2 kids and have carried on through it all. He regularly calls to the house (detail removed by moderator) but we end up arguing and the tension and the fear I feel come rushing back!! Thatvsense of trying everything not to antagonise him. Recently he said to me (detail removed by moderator) I told him I can’t. It took all my strength to say that cause before I’d forgive him and take him back. He cried told me he loves me will always love me will never be or want anyone else I’m the woman of his dreams. He rings me (detail removed by moderator) to check the kids are ok and if I need anything …I’m worryifnive done the wrong thing? Maybe he has changed maybe he’s realised what he’s done and we can have the happy family unit I’ve always wanted and worked hard for. I feel absolutely awful …
My kids are happier without him here but would they be happy to have him back if he changes and the fighting stopped !! I’m struggling so much -
The tension and fear are huge red flags. That’s your gut warning you he is dangerous. Read Living With The Dominator and keep all contact to a minimum. Engage with your local women’s aid for support. Abuse always gets worse. Google the cycle of abuse. He won’t change. He can’t even last 30 minutes. Zero contact is the way forward. Use a third party for contact x
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