Stuck in limbo

[Itwastimetostopit]

I’m out the relationship but the events of the fall out continues.
He’s not being charged not enough evidence.

I have to protect my child but we (me m kids) don’t want to move.
As his bail gets lifted I can’t trust him not to Ruin it.
I’m stuck cos feel Sw will blame me if anything happens even though said i got support to stay here.
The risk is down to him and his behaviour.

I’m still struggling with the guilt after the way things ended even though it was his actions.

I’m starting to try get a non molestation order.
I feel like been in a bubble while he’s been on bail.

It’s still early days but feel like stuck and can’t plan anything
There is so much uncertainty

[KIP.]

I’ve been in your shoes. How do you eat an elephant? One teaspoon at a time. Try to just take baby steps and deal with things as they present themselves. I got myself into a panic trying to stay one step ahead because I’d always been this way. Trying to predict his next abusive outburst and always trying to prevent it. It’s exhausting. Ring Rights for Women for free legal advice. Get things moving with the legal side of access or preventing access. Definately seek out the support of your local womens aid. The first stages are the worse. Zero contact and time will allow you to gather your strength but never ever underestimate these men x

[Itwastimetostopit]

I’m seeking legal support but that’s just starting.

I’ve got some support and people to go to
Only rang women’s aid for freedom program

[Itwastimetostopit]

I just feel a lot of pressure due to the social services and don’t want them to think I’m not doing what i should . I have done what I can so far

I just can’t predict him

[freedomtochoose]

this sounds really tough iwttsu
I don’t have much to offer except for it sounds like you are doing what you can, as others said baby steps and look after yourself thinking of you
ftc
x

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