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I felt so sorry for my little boy. It was his birthdsy and his dad never brought him a present. He asked him daddyvjavent you got me a present. His dad said well what about my father’s day present. He said I have got you a present daddy bit it’s not fathers day yet. His dad said oh yes make me feel bad for not buying you a present. Rub salt in my wounds. My boy is really upset. He has really hurt him. It’s been a long time since we split up and he used to play Super dad to upset me I think. It doesn’t. N
He can afford to go out drinking and gambling and spend money on his new gf son but hurt my baby like that.
He refused to bring the present he had brought him for father’s day as sausage never brought me a present so I am not giving him a present.
I said daddy will be mad if you don’t give him a present and he said I don’t care. He used to try and turn my child against me with parent alienation and lies about me but my son knows now.
He knows his dad will steal his birthday money. He knows he is a liar. I see the hurt on his face sometimes. Emotional abuse.
His sad. What a small person you must be to feel good from hurting your own child. I was even thinking for the first time in years should I try and reason with him and give him some money to put in a card for him but I know it’s pointless and he would probably keep the money. Whats the point x
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I read this post earlier today but didn’t have time to replhy, although I thought of you.
This is horrible, nasty behaviour.However it is HIS behaviour, not yours.
You are a solid mum and your child has a secure attachment to you.
Therefore in the long run it will be unimportant although my heart goes out to the little chap for trying to make sense of his hurt about it.
Give each other big hugs.
and one for you from us
ftc
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What a horrible way to treat a child. He’ll miss out in the end though, my daughter is now a young adult and chooses not to see her father. He tried to guilt trip her into visits but she has none of it. I haven’t had to say a word, he’s done it all himself.
It’s deeply hurtful to see our children upset but all we can do is the best we can. Sounds like you’re doing an amazing job raising your boy.
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