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Hey everyone , I just wanted to mention that I feel so much more empowered since being on here and opening up to friends about my husbands behaviour over the years ( throwing things in arguments and general bullying)
Even though I haven’t left yet !!
Opening up to people and seeing the reaction on their faces and the advice on here has defo made me stronger and empowered ..
please talk and don’t keep things to yourself .. I am so much more confident in my own thoughts and feelings about his behaviour being wrong .. it is the best feeling .. don’t keep things to yourself let it all out !
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Hi, I totally agree with what you’re saying! I have recently joined here and hearing from everyone helps give you clarity & definitely feel empowered. I have not left yet either but I just wondered how your friends reacted when you told them? I don’t know why but I feel too guilty to be completely honest with them, like I’m betraying him and I don’t want people to think badly of him as he’s not like that all the time…crazy I know! When he clearly cares so little or else we wouldn’t be on here. Thanks for sharing and take care xx
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Hi Tinkabell,
I used to hold back and not say everything For same reasons but I am now at the stage I don’t feel guilty at all as I have lost my respect for him , which to me makes me realise I can’t pull it back this time .. he has killed everything .
The reactions from my friends to me shocked me as I got so used to it it’s became normal .. their faces were enough but when they ask me aren’t you scared of him and said can’t believe you putting up with it for so long ..
my male friend was furious as other men would be I guess . One of my friends told me she won’t tell her husband incase I stay as he won’t look at him the same again and if we want to go out in couples , will make things difficult !!
This was all an eye opener to me !!
But like you he is good a lot of the time , but the good doesn’t matter to me so much now as once the respect has gone I think it over rides everything xx
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