The mood swings

[Lilachummingbird]

So (timeframe removed by Moderator) my husband had said he was going out with his mate (timeframe removed by Moderator). Bearing in mind I haven’t been out with him even (timeframe removed by Moderator) and I pay all of the bills all I asked was if he was going to be out for long. He guilt tripped me by asking how much it was for me to get my hair done (I got my hair done (timeframe removed by Moderator) but it had been (timeframe removed by Moderator) since I had it done as money had been tight because of all he drinks and even the hairdresser said you could tell it had been ages since it had been done). I had spent hours making a dinner which he then said he didn’t want and that he would throw it on the floor if it wasn’t for the fact that he didn’t trust me to clean it up properly. He told me he hopes I choke on my dinner and then told me he hoped I fall down the stairs when I went downstairs and (timeframe removed by Moderator) banging around upstairs. (removed by Moderator).

I never thought of him banging around and hitting walls and wardrobes as abusive behaviour until I watched an episode of mafs when they said it was intimidating behaviour. I’d never thought of it like that.

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