Things just get worse

[Flower01]

Someone in my family is being stupid to let my kids dad in the area where I live near my home I don’t like this if I have non molestation order or not they should understand he can’t be near my home.the person that she he can come don’t care what I have been thought with my kids dad and thinks it’s okay and they are just playing games I think this person I really don’t get on with either and causes problems for me what can I do guys ? I am fed up that my situation has not got better it just gets worse .

[Lisa]

Hi Flower01,

I’m so sorry that this family member is being careless with your safety in this way. Unfortunately, domestic abuse and the associated risks are still much misunderstood by many. If it’s someone you don’t get on with, it may be that they’re not properly thinking about the impact on you. I know that it can be difficult to open up about abuse, it can make you feel very vulnerable and it absolutely should be your choice what you disclose and to whom. Would it be possible to try to explain to this person how you feel knowing he’s in the area and try to make them understand why it’s not okay?

Take care and keep posting,
Lisa

[Flower01]

Thank you Lisa for your advise I really appreciate it. This person is very storbon and they don’t care about my safety which is horrible but I will call police or phone women Aid if things get worse

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