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      Pineapplepie
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      Do you ever try keep the peace or agree with him so other people don’t hear, do you ever cry in silence so no one hears.
      (timeframe removed by Moderator) he’s punched me in the arm (number removed by Moderator) times, slapped my arms and head, he’s grabbed hold of my wrists really hard, he’s sworn and shouted and called me names and asked me the same questions on repeat for over a hour.

      hes was trying to put all these events together and coming up with all these stories on how im this big cheat.

      ive tried to be so quiet so my children and neighbours don’t hear because im so ashamed.fortunately the children stayed asleep but im sure all around us may have heard him.

      i tried to tell him i dont deserve to be hit whatever he’s thinks of me but he says he’s so angry and I’ve mentally hurt him

    • #176813
      EvenSerpentsShine
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      Yes. Silence is the soil in which abuse thrives and grows.

    • #176821
      Pineapplepie
      Participant

      He has been like this today, slapped me in the face and cornered me in rooms, blocking the door.
      telling me I can be in the same room as him and the kids.

      i didn’t cry today, just agreed with him to try and make him stop shouting, about how rubbish I am, how I don’t deserve him and he’s too good for me.

       

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