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if you have left after being terrified of sharing custody of your child, please contact me. I’d like to know more about what happened in terms of access to your child/children.
For context, one of the main reasons I am still here with him, is because I am terrified of sharing custody with him/him having access to our young child without me being there to protect her from his behvaiour and his family’s behvaiour. I have concerns for her which is why I’ve stayed but I know if I go to court he’d get some sort of access to her.
If you left this kind of situation, I’d like to find out how you did it. Thank you.
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Mine threatened to take child away, take me to court, ring social services etc. Since leaving he barely sees the child, turns up sporadically, has them a few hours max & doesn’t pay maintenance. In my experience it was another tactic to bully me into staying, all mouth. That’s not to say everyone has that, just my experience. But I will say, it wasn’t until I left that I realised how much my kids were being affected and hindsight makes me wish I’d not been so scared & had left sooner. But that’s not easy in these circumstances xx
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Thank you for your reassurance. I realise this is the case . Mg situation is quite different in that I don’t feel I can trust him with our child and for him to keep her safe. I have safeguarding concerns regarding his family and I know if he has here, he will keep them around them. I don’t know how I can win against that? I don’t have evidence of everything and I know in most cases, some sort of access is always granted. I feel the only way I can protect her from them is by being physically there.
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Can I get anonymous advice?
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We have just went through courts as he constantly told me he would apply for custody due to me being a vulnerable person, but now he only speaks to the child once a week and it will be arranged that he sees the child on a day through supported visits
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I wish this would be the case but I know he will apply to courts, he has the finances and connections / support. He would do everything he can to spite me and hurt me . From what I understand, even limited access won’t last forever. And my little one is still quite young. She can’t fend for herself, not that any child should have to
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