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Hey all so im jue for (detail removed by moderator) away with a friend.. Iv tryied to do it so are child are at school most of the time (detail removed by moderator) prob is hes making it really hard for me to go… Iv cleaned the house as soon as he comes in he deliberately dosent clean up after himself leaving stuff around toilet unflushed so dirty bog roll in the loo… Hes been hiding and moving some of my stuff around what i have organised to go away with.. Im getting proper stressed out as (detail removed by moderator) as soon as he come though the door he was straight on his phone playing games (he dose this all the time) he gives are son no attention and whilst i was trying to cook tea wash up inalso had to look after are son as because he was ignoring him he came in the kitchen with me… Are son who is autistic had a accident so i asked him (detail removed by moderator) times to help but he just carried on playing games in the end he did once his game finished but moaned about doing it and he shouldn’t be having accidents and i replied (detail removed by moderator)… Im jue to go away (detail removed by moderator) but so scared to go i know he disent watch hhim properly as many times iv gone out to sshop and come back to my son in the house on his own and my h (detail removed by moderator) outside… I really wont to go as i get to clear my head and relax for a few days seeing im the main care giver to are son as my h works full time… Any advice would be great
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He’s doing this deliberately to prevent you from going. To ruin your holiday and making sure you don’t do it again. It’s controlling behaviour. You need a break. Don’t be surprised if he tries to physically prevent you from leaving. Keep your phone on you fully charge and ring the police if he prevents you leaving. Are you in touch with your local women’s aid?
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