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Sorry me again. I’m finding it hard to cope, this year has been so bad. I escaped my ex-partner when i had to call the police. He then went into my work place and made a horrific false allegation against me and I was suspended from work an university. The police had to investigation and it took over half a year for my name to be cleared. During that time i had to move places 2 times. My mental health hit rock bottom and i have several suicide attempts. He contacted friends and family so I’ve lost contact with them even though i tried explaining to then my side, no one believes me. I have no support from my domestic violence worker, she doesn’t seem to care and never responds to me. Since coming back to work there had been a massive breech in confidentiality so many people are aware of the false allegation and now treat me like dirt. I’ve had to sort out my university course with no help and theres even people at university who have heard.
He has ruined my life. I have done nothing to him. the police don’t care. work does not care. family and friends don’t care. I can’t seem to win. I want this to go to court, but it’s highly unlikely and even if it does goes to court i wont be able to afford it. Whats the point in living when everyone is against you. I can’t sleep. I get constant flashbacks. My career is destroyed. My studies has been destroyed. He has ruined me and will get away with everything. I really don’t want to be alive anymore especially when people like him get away with whats he’s done to me. He has ruined my life and I can not re-build. Things will never be the same no matter how hard I try.
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Hi there Rein1deer2, I wanted to offer you some support this morning, I am so sorry to hear about everything you are continuing to go through and how you are feeling.
How awful that he has contacted your family and friends and you have now been isolated from them too. I know you say that your domestic violence worker is not being supportive, you deserve better than that and she should respond to you.
Have you got any support in place as you have been feeling suicidal? Do speak to your GP if you can. Do remember that the Samaritans are available 24/7 on 116 123 if you need some emotional support.
Best wishes
Lisa
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Hello Rein1deer2
Don’t give up as that’s what he would like to happen – we are all here for you. I too have had suicidal thoughts, seeing it as the only way out of my situation. I know where you are at.
Universities offer counselling services to their students as there is an increasing awareness of mental health issues in the education sector and how these issues can negatively impact on someone’s studies. These are free of charge and don’t go on your medical record. Would you be able to book an appointment with them, to say that you are struggling with your studies and that you are in an emotionally difficult place right now. You can use this to get an intermission or authorised break from your studies, and then return to it when you feel emotionally stronger.
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