Yes I would say that’s red flag. But I know it’s so hard at the time. I have a friend who’s found out something similar about a guy she’s seeing. She’s right that he could be telling the truth, but there’s a good chance he isn’t, especially as you have to have evidence to support a non mol order. xxxx
The thing is once you hear something like that it’s just not worth the risk. If you aren’t too involved just run for the hills! My ex said things like that about his exes, if only I knew then what I know now!!