What happens when you contact a local Dv support group

[Justwokenup]

Ive been coming on here a number of months now and it’s helped me realise exactly how much of my relationship isn’t normal.  Im thinking of fully seperateing – we’ve been in seperate rooms for over (number removed by Moderator) months and I’ve said I’ve wanted to end things . His not left , he just thinks I need time to think about things and that any other man wouldn’t be so accommodating and would have left ( i wish).

Im terrified of asking him to leave and really don’t think I can do it without further support . Maybe leave and come back when he’s gone even.  I just can’t face it the tears the rages the guilt trip and then we go to bed and the next morning start again !! No change and no bags packed .

Im worried about reaching out to my local support group, ive  been given details in chats ive had here .  What happens , is it confidential , do they get social services involved, what support do they offer ?

[Lisa]

Hi Justwokenup,

Thank you for sharing with us. It is understandable you are feeling worried about reaching out for support from your local domestic abuse service, it can feel overwhelming to make contact. All services are different but can often offer ongoing emotional and practical support depending on your circumstances. Some types of support often available are support groups, one-to-one support, counselling, drop in sessions, support via phone, advice surgeries, dedicated support for young people and children. If you felt able to then you could contact them initially to ask about their support availability, procedures and policies as these may vary from service to service. The support workers will understand how difficult it is to make initial contact so do ask any questions you have.

Keep posting when you can, we are here for you.

Best wishes,

Lisa

[StrongLife]

Good on you for reaching out to a group. I am not familiar with your area to know.

I would recommend a domestic violence advocate or counsellor or refuge.Group sessions are good too. Please persist with seeking support in person in your area.

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