What’s the point?

[orchid7]

Feel very frustrated. Keep trying to push through and enjoy life but always end up missing him, wanting our life back, thinking nothing compares. Don’t want to date anyone. Can’t ever imagine being interested in anyone else again. Trying trying trying constantly. Days into months into years and I’m still wanting him. Feels like it’s getting harder. Feel weaker now than I did when I left. Just fed up. I can’t do it but sometimes it feels like it would just be easier to give up, surrender and go back. It’s not fair. Sorry for the rant just need to get it out 🙁 xx

[Hiya@]

Hello,
Yes it’s very tough, I also miss my ex. Not all the time and honestly after a few months it’s getting better but I do get sentimental about the relationship we were together a very long time. Many people on here describe this as trauma bonding and this is exactly what it is. Perhaps like me you are also in transition between your old life and a new one.
I am absolutely Not looking for another relationship other than loving myself and finding out what makes me happy.
Keep using the forums to rant, we all get it and nothing about this situation is fair.
Stay strong, sending love
Hiya xx

[orchid7]

Hello hiya thank you for your reply it means a lot xx

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