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That no contact is the best way forward I wernt too sure but as times going on now I’m beginning to realise it’s true. Apart from 1 message the other week and him passing just once as far as I know I’ve not actually seen him in person for a couple of months. Don’t get me wrong I do still think of him and wonder if he’s still with her and if he’s changed but more than anything how he can go on in life and not see his son ask after him or anything. But also I guess he’s doing me a favour and more than anything he’s doing his son a favour. Xx
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Yes he is Betterdays, he is doing your whole family a favour. It is so important to get this man out of your lives, he has caused so much damage to all of you. As the weeks and months go on you will continue to see changes, small and big. But all of these changes will be positive & be building strong foundation in your lifes. There is no reason at all that any of your sons can not achieve well, the same as you. No Contact for all of the women on here is essential.
(Removed by moderator) and I told her that I had been No Contact and for how long. When I said those words I felt proud and different inside. To do something & strong and normal for me where any man is concerned is not the norm. Without this forum I would have contacted him, begged pleaded and had such a different outcome than I have now. No Contact is key. X*X
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It is very hard at first, but well worth it.
When I feel sad now, I am more or less thinking about it from an objective and general view- such as, why does abuse exist?- rather than only a subjective view- why did he do it to me?
I think no contact allows you to begin to distance yourself from your own abuse situation a bit, and the pain becomes more diluted, less sharp.
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