When will it stop??

[Butterflyblue]

Evening ladies,

Just looking for some advice/hope really.

Split from partner (detail removed by moderator). We have a (detail removed by moderator) old daughter who he hasn’t seen since (out of his choice!) He’s spoke of custody at one point and texts were exchanged until eventually I blocked him.
I have on numerous occasions found my car damaged, door bell ripped off and most recently I’m now being locked in daily (super glue in locks)
I’m going round in circles with police, they never seem to come round and the people at 101 aren’t always that helpful.
I’m losing the will to live and I’m exhausted from it all. Is there any advice?
There’s no evidence of the above so purchased a cctv camera. I asked my neighbor about putting it up as the main door is a communal door but he doesn’t want it and said it’s illegal with out permission.
I’m feeling unsafe in my
Own home! If there was a fire, that’s the only way out!

[KIP.]

Speak to victim support and go back to the domestic abuse police. Insist on giving them a statement. Get them to take notice of your situation. They could warn him off. Ring Rights of Women to see where you stand regarding a non molestation order. Get in touch with your local women’s aid. They will have contacts with other organisations. Keep a journal of the damage done. Dates and times and potential witnesses. If you can’t put the camera up at the communal door, can you put it up at your own door or window pointing at your car? Is it possible for you to stay with someone for a while or have someone stay with you? I think there is a stalking helpline. Paladin?

[Butterflyblue]

Ok thank you. I’m waiting for an officer to arrive this evening and just hoping that they do!
I will research the other organisations thank you Hun I may be able to play around with camera
To view the street from my window, but I’m 2 floors up
So I’m not sure how effective

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