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    • #146685
      Hereforhelp
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      If I was unhappy about something he had done and told him he would ….

      1. Give me a half smile and ask if i was on my period…. or

      Pretend to really listen, apologise and swear it wouldn’t happen again… until the next time anyhow

      Tell me I hadn’t understood what he meant

      Pretend not to be good at explaining

      Tell me I had twisted his words to make him sound bad then attack me

      Accuse me of lying

      Deny it even happened or I had enlarged

      And… if I brought up something from a short while ago to him he would say well it’s in the past now

      I had to write some of this down on here as my head is rushing, overwhelmed… it’s been a productive but really difficult day today (I cannot be specific, some of you already know where I am at)
      I think each and everyone of you are amazing ❤

    • #146689
      gettingtired
      Participant

      I’m always accused of being moody or a b**** when I’m on my period. Delightful!
      Also, if I complain of being called a curse word by him, I’m told (detail removed by moderator). I’ve also had the heartfelt apologies of promises to get better, get sober blah blah blah.. that’s something else I’ve gotten used to! I know he’ll never change though.
      Glad today was productive for you despite the difficulties 💕

    • #146694
      Chocolatebunnie
      Participant

      Yes all of these especially the hormones being on a period, actually wonder if he is on his period sometimes or more than me anyway 😂

      He was just joking or I misunderstood very common answers to my hurt feelings, never sorry and never stopped or changed what he was doing to upset me

    • #146734
      nbumblebee
      Participant

      Oh yeah im miserable too always having affairs even though i look old and (detail removed by Moderator).
      I never get an apology though never.
      Hope you are ok and hanging in there sweetie x

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