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You’ve been through such rough time. I’m so sorry you went through that.. you are very brave.

Thankyou for taking the time to respond to my messages 🙏 I’m really grateful and am so happy you are now safe x

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Thankyou @cherries I’m really appreciative of your comment. Can I ask how you finally managed to leave? X

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Thankyou so much @Marmalade that is very helpful to read and makes a lot of sense… 🙏🙏🙏

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Thankyou @cherries.. I have that vision of the jewellery and water in my mind 🙏

 

im grateful for your response.. it starts to make you feel like there’s something wrong with you – like you’re going crazy..

im so glad you’re out.. stay strong and never go back xxx

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Hi Lacemoth,

I don’t have much advice but I just wanted to say I’m so sorry you’re going through this and you’re not alone.

Please reach out to women’s aid they are amazing.

please keep posting on here..

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Thankyou so much Evenserpentsshine, I’m really so grateful for your answers..

yes I think you might be right about alarm bells. It’s definitely continual unasked for criticism.. I’m going to read up more on the methods you’ve mentioned..

im so glad you managed to escape from your situation and are living a much happier life… its must have been so hard to leave, you must have had to be very brave to get out of your situation…

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Thankyou so much Evenserpentsshine..

There is definitely a lot of criticism on his side.. I don’t know what’s don’t on with me- I’ve started to obsess about is it abuse or not.. am- is it just I’m being over sensitive..

I’m overthinking any comments he makes .. the nuts thing is I’m even finding myself anticipating the next time something happens so I can feel validated… I just can’t seem to let it go.. it’s alI think about at the moment. Im not sure why I’m doing it and it’s not very healthy to me or the relationship.. :/

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Thankyou Evenserpentsshine. I’m

so sorry to hear about your past relationship, it sounds awful. I’m so glad you managed to break free.

Thankyou so much for your advice, that is really helpful 🙏

 

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He bought everyone’s lunch apart from you? And he knows you have no money?

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Thankyou Glasshalf for taking the time to read through and reply to my post. I’m sorry you went through that. I’m happy to hear you’ve managed to navigate through to a healthier place.

I don’t see us as being able to resolve it which is heart breaking in so many ways because 85% of the time he is the perfect partner.

Now I feel like there are only two options – to stay with him and deal with it somehow, or to have a termination at (removed by moderator) ( which is so devastating- especially after seeing the 3D scan (removed by moderator))

I can’t raise the baby on my own as I can’t afford it and I also know my partner would be an absolute nightmare to deal with.. he already said if we wernt to stay together and have the baby (removed by moderator) there would be a legal battle..

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