That would be a good idea but he moved into my fmy flat which is a really nice one. He did reckon the flat that night costing me a fair bit to fix and I kind of felt he stepped into my world and community but he also befriended them all so that they still see it as a nice guy who did the wrong thing that night. Your right though there is memories everywhere and makes it hard for me to move on. Everyone does look at me a bit sympathetic now and that’s rubbish but they still would be friendly to him. The dreaded Facebook shows me that a number of poeple support him on facebook, men I add, they seem to see no wrong in him but I know how believable he is. It’s just created such an empty feeling I never had so much before and I’m hoping the lost feeling will tend to ease. I still cry at a drop of a hat when I think I’ve pissed someone off, or i get challenged, not even in a bad way, but I’m quite sensitive still. Don’t know my own reactions very well at the moment. I never thought it would have such a large impact on me, it was only one night he was physical and lost it, but one night more than I ever needed in my memories. Thanks for your reply