Iamwoman

[Iamwoman]

Hi again. Yes Kip you were right. I couldnt stop crying this morning because he never accepts his behaviour is bad. (Detail removed by moderator). Things are still strained but he took me out for lunch and shopping and we bought our daughter some nice things. Back to work tomorrow. My boss tjinks the sun shines out of my husbands a** When he asks how my weekend went I will omit the bad stuff Thanks for listening ladies x

[Iamwoman]

Thanks falling skys and cuppa. I didn’t sleep much. Feel rough from crying all night. Afraid to go downstairs as he is down there. (Detail removed by moderator). didn’t speak a word. Just glared at me. I didn’t do anything wrong for goodness sake.

[Iamwoman]

Hi and thanks for your replies. I hear you livingonaprayer. My husband (long story) was my ex once upon a time and still thought he could comment or touch. (I made my bed….by going back but did it for our daughter who hardly saw him but now other than the side of the marriage that I am uncomfortable with, the family side is perfect. So perfect that I feel lucky). I don’t know what life will be like when our daughter leaves home which I hope she doesn’t for a very long time. It is the here and now that matters.
I just don’t like comments of what I am wearing to work, wearing under my clothes, wearing to bed. He says at my age I should be lucky that he still finds me attractive and should be happy not angry with him every time he comments. I’m not afraid of him but he just will not listen to me when I voice my anger at his lech ways….
We do not have the same sense of humour. He thinks he is right and I think I am right. No compromising from both sides. I do not find sexual innuendos funny. He ought to grow up.
Thanks again all x

[Iamwoman]

Thanks Dan and Ican.

I’m actually sat in the bathroom sobbing right now. Ican, mine says I have no sense of humour??
He is on all accounts a sexual deviant but would never admit that.
I earn more money than he does and pay all tbe bills so don’t need him financially.
There is a huge gap of (detail removed by Moderator) years in my story that I won’t go into but he is now here for our daughter and I have stepkids and grandkids that would take his side if we split again.
He is a saint to the outside world.A long long story but its the here and now I can’t cope with…

[Iamwoman]

Thank you for your replies Kip Ariel and Serenity.
When I was (detail removed by Moderator) I had my skirt pulled down by a bully in front of assembly and that scarred me. Husband said it is about time I got over that but when he pulls down my pjs it makes me uncomfortable. I won’t say what he says of sex but when I disagree with him I’m told to lighten up and get a sense of humour?
I have endometriosis and sex hurts. He says I should want him to have pleasure….
He insists on knowing what underwear I have on….

[Iamwoman]

please excuse typos. Im typing on a phone quickly

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