Poodlepower – that is exactly my situation. We’re due to move to a very isolated part of the country in a few months time, and I have said I won’t be going with him if he hasn’t made significant progress, his response to that is that I can have a “runaway fund”. Anything but actually work to fix the behaviour. Its horrible living like this, when things are good hes my best friend, it really is difficult to even think of how things could get bad again. Thats why I say I feel like i need something awful to happen, so that I “snap out of it”
