Hi
I am new here and understand your story
I have been married (detail removed by Moderator) years ( both oap’s) and soon found out the bullying coercive controlling and belittling ways
I am disabled now unfortunately and he belittles everything I say I am restricted in doing
I was referred to safeguarding as he fails to get me medical help when I need it
(detail removed by Moderator) he tells me I can use my hand to open a front door so why can’t I use a large bunch to open a heavy door
I have weakness in my hands and I know my limitations. He skits me and I feel scared and helpless
He said “do I want to be married to him as he is fed up with ME controlling him
I darent say that all I want is to be away from him
I feel so helpless
Thank you for reading
