First hope, thank you for your advice. I know it’s horrible but I suppose it’s all about being selfish for a change. Something that didn’t come naturally to me and I doubt you either. I’ve decided I’m going to try and give things another go because I do really love him and things are good most of the time. I’ve told him how worried I am and he does understand and when I’ve said about leaving he tells me that he knows I’d be better off without him. I think he gets it. It was interesting (detail removed by moderator)because his friend was talking about a girl who he knows getting battered by her boyfriend and how there’s no excuse for it. My bf totally agreed and became uncomfortable with the conversation so hopefully it was a bit of a wake up call that his friends think this way. How long have you been with your fella? Do you have any idea why he acts this way?
