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    • #175643
      Nowornever
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      Yes Im blamed for everything my eldest daughter doesn’t believe me when ive told her about all the stuff he’s done to me ! It’s so hard and heartbreaking that she’s so cold towards me , but he’s such a good lier I have no chance

    • #174750
      Nowornever
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      This is me right now. I decided to leave to get some head space as I would have ended up having a nervous breakdown . All the Red flags are there that he’s been cheating , also playing mind games , moving stuff , turning lights on in the middle of the night. There’s so much more gone on ,  but he won’t admit it and says it’s all in my head! He has  literally made out that I have something mentally wrong with me! The thing is he won’t leave me alone , I get all the love bombing now and he crys like a baby, saying he hasn’t done any of these things and that he can’t live without me , if I knew how much he loved me I would know . Any way I’ve also agreed reluctantly to see a marriage guidence councillor, but I know what a good liar he is and I’m afraid he’ll convince her it’s all in my head 😫

    • #174576
      Nowornever
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      Mine is the same . I  acused him of cheating , he just denys everything ! All I get is .. it never happened , I didn’t  say that or it’s all in your head ! Then he started with his mind games and making out I had demetia as when he did something I would go off on one which made my anxiety go through the roof and then I’d get,  but we’re all worried about you and if it’s not dementia your having a psychotic episode !

      I even had a mri on brain as soon as that came back normal I got you your having psychotic episode then you need to go back to drs 😫

      He swears on everyone’s lives he’s not done anything wrong he as no guilt because he’s not done it , I’m the love of his life and he would never hurt me.  All the years we’ve been togeather he’s never hit me but now if I make him mad enough he as slapped me,  pinned me down and called me names .

      Then he’s really sorry and actually crys and says he can’t live without me, but I know what he’s doing to me .There’s so much more gone on and I can’t see it stopping

      It’s just awfull

       

       

    • #174520
      Nowornever
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      Thank you. I will .

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