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Thanks I’ve not rang the helpline recently, but will do today.
There is no way we can leave and have contact as if I’m not there the abuse will aim at my son, he’s very cute and easily manipulate people to let h8m see my son away from a contact Center he will play the game to show he’s a good dad while emotionally manipulating my son. they only last for so long before they transfer to unsupervised visits.
He’s then a flight risk and could remove my son from the country, my son is also autistic and has spd and a lot of anxiety relating to the verbal abuse towards me he has heard.
My partner has a long history of violence and some very strong charges in prison (detail removed) he was classed as a risk to the public while inside according to his prison reports. as well as daily drug use so my son is not safe to have any contact
I’d rather fight him in court if he found me which is something he would have to do first and isn’t easy than hand him my son who he has never been alone with and non of his family or friends know.

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I’m planning on leaving and have support to do this, my local women’s aid aren’t very helpful and told me my son must have contact with him even though my son says he definitely doesn’t want to. I have saved enough money in a secret account for 1 years rents, bills ect with out needing to worry about work as I was self employed. It’s just making the move to leave and protecting my son from having any contact. Which is why I was planning to just move and disappear with no trace.
I just wondered if others had done this and built a safe life for them self.

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