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    • #176043
      Purplerain24
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      How did it go

    • #176032
      Purplerain24
      Participant

      I had a similar situation, it only works in their favour, they know that you are scared and don’t want authorities involved, so they have you over a barrel more control for them, your basically trapped, you won’t make the leap out of fear of authorities becoming involved, but see it this way, if you stay it will never end, your kids won’t thank you for it, if the abuse were to escalate or a incident happens authorities will then be involved on a deeper scale and they will know that you lied to them, please don’t stay out of fear that’s exactly what he wants, distance yourself from him even if you have to come out of your own home, there is ways around it, but Staying is not one of them.

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    • #176023
      Purplerain24
      Participant

      I did the same left my own house and refused to go back, couldn’t bare being in his company, feeling on edge, walking on eggshells and feeling that negative energy,  after a couple of days I felt sad, sick, confused, hurt, but I knew I was making the rite choice, living togother was keeping me isolated with him,  I figured in the end the only way to escape was to leave myself, he never would of, I had to distance myself from him.

    • #176020
      Purplerain24
      Participant

      What a positive post, wishing you a happy positive future.

    • #176021
      Purplerain24
      Participant

      What a positive post, wishing you a happy positive future.

    • #172664
      Purplerain24
      Participant

      Hi, if u need a friend, I am going through a terrible time rite now too, we can all help each other, the whole point in abuse, is someone being isolated and alone, I have never in my life felt so alone and trapped , to ashamed to talk to ppl I know, know what I am going through is not rite! The more he gets away with it, the worse it gets, but with support we can escape the cycle

    • #172661
      Purplerain24
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      Hi how’s it going, did he leave?

    • #176022
      Purplerain24
      Participant

      Same, could do with some support and possibly make a friend or 2, these times are often lonely

       

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