The lady Bird

[The lady Bird]

Thanks for the advice, luckily I’m not back with him, when he moved out I got house in my name. No claim on house, now he has broke up with gf he will be homeless soon. I put up with so much while married now all this using the child. The situation will only end when I end it….! Now if it’s not related to the child’s needs I just ignore what he says etc.

[The lady Bird]

So it’s been (detail removed by moderator) months since I posted last and things have been crazy.

So I got him out of the house, he moved in with his gf, tried to move on each day getting stronger and stronger, my little one suffered but I work on her and each day got better and better. However my ex got more difficult. He wouldn sort out anything legal, still played the victim, said he was depressed and suicidal, at one stage after me asking to sort out something legal for our daughters care he disappeared sent out “suicide text messages” was found by the police took to hospital released 1hr later. However the police also came to see me and while here he was sending abusive texts, the officer was fantastic and told me again to go back to woman’s aids, I spoke to a lovely lady explained the abuse I was receiving. Again I picked myself got on with life, now he wants back he said sorry and like a fool I believed it then, but woke up a few days later. I guess it was a relapse, but now the abuse continuous, and now going through our daughter “mammy doesn’t want daddy” I really don’t know when this will end. Again tomorrow I meet woman aid to try and under stand. It’s been (detail removed by moderator) months life was looking up for me and now it’s starting all over again

[The lady Bird]

I went back 🙁 and it’s been hell. I can’t understand how someone can been so nasty. Anyway tomorrow I see someone at womans aid, to and sort housing etc. This time I feel stronger and my head is now determined. When he says all does mean things like your nasty, play mind games, I need a doctor, I’m a unfit mother…. it’s all In one ear out the other. I believe he throws all these things at me to make me flip out so he can turn the blame on me…..

[The lady Bird]

I packed my bags and am finally out and away.

[The lady Bird]

Thanks for your replies. So all came out today he likes another much younger girl. He been with her must days and now nights. I don’t know how I feel about it. Sometimes I feel relief but then hurt. Worse thing is he still won’t leave the house. Keeps saying he can be my friend support me etc. He keeps wanting to tell me why he doesn’t love me again all blame on me etc. I hope God gives me the strength to get through this.

[The lady Bird]

The helpline was fantastic. I will definitely have to look into housing just need to pick up the encouragement to make an appointment. It’s very hard now so yes the next (removed by moderator) months will be hell.

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