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    • #168546
      Valkyriewhiteribbon
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      I know it is silly, but I could possibly suggest a few names if you would like?

      Also, I am assuming that naming myself they heard before or are familiar with would be a bad idea, right?

      Let’s keep thriving- far away from those assholes.

    • #168545
      Valkyriewhiteribbon
      Participant

      This is incredibly resourceful and straightforward to read, so I feel a lot less overwhelmed, thank you for taking the time to write this- and yeah…

      It hurts so much knowing that for a lot of my family members, I cannot communicate or have to limit so much information which I want to share with them about myself, because they do not understand and would rather be in blissful ignorance to the abuse I had endured with the people I survived around. They would relay information or go straight to the source just to “prove” to themselves that they are not as “monstrous/Villainous” as I deem them to be, being unaware to their manipulation or victim blaming techniques.

      I want to live in peace, hence why I do not bother to even speak with them anymore- I have tried to reach out to them for support, but I would be judged, neglected or underwhelmed whenever I would get hurt, physically or psychologically by them.

    • #168544
      Valkyriewhiteribbon
      Participant

      Thank you, sometimes, it is challenging to not feel trapped by all of this, I am grateful for the words of encouragement!

    • #167842
      Valkyriewhiteribbon
      Participant

      I appreciate the reminder and for one method to change my address details discreetly, thank you.

    • #167841
      Valkyriewhiteribbon
      Participant

      Thank you, I feel so relieved seeing someone respond back and show me their own perspective on (going?) external support as well as tell me this piece of information about libraries.

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