Google gaslighting. He knows exactly what he’s doing. He knows exactly how it makes you feel but he chooses to continue. He will flat out lie, deny, blame, twist and leave any conversation confusing and mind blowing. They’re dysfunctional and delusional and there is absolutely no point in discussing anything with them. You have probably tried hundreds of times to communicate your issues but have become so broken by his response it’s become pointless. He’s not in the least bit interested in your issues or your opinion or your feelings. You’re offering a solution for some time alone with him and he even ruins that and turns it round on you. Nothing you will do will ever be right because he will simply move the goal posts again and again.