Hi 123cali
I just wanted to show you some support. You may not get many replies to this as we can not discuss court on the forum. This is because details can be identifying and may jeopardise any further investigations or court proceedings.
I can totally understand why you are not comfortable with overnight stays and you are a really good mum for protecting your little boy.
You could get some legal advice from Rights of Women (they also have lots of useful information on their website) or The Coram Children’s Legal Centre about your situation.
Take care
Lisa