I asked X a question, which lead to X having a discussion with another family member – X then decided the discussion was actually an argument (it wasnt/should have been a straight forward conversation) and when this family member apologised, X said it was my fault for manipulating the situation (because I asked a question).. obviously asking a question is not manipulation nor with the intent to cause and argument, but X likes trying to turn others on me (thankfully didn’t happen). I know I’m not in the wrong, just needing to vent