Hi,
I have been made to live where my abuse and neglect happened no support at all. So navigated it myself.
I do find it difficult when my community treats me like to victim and refuses to see me in the here and now
Old friends are only willing to be around if I’m victim and needy.
My ex’s fiends live close by one I know lives around the corner from me and I have stalking.
I have had to choose to have new social circle in a different locality.
My landlord treats me like I’m the victim and participates in stalking and harassment.
When I set boundaries with these people they ignore me. When I’m looking for support for job applications they say yes I’ll provide a personal reference then don’t.
Please advise what this is all about and how I can stop swinging from victim to survivor.
I want to be a survivor, no more victim.
P.S assertiveness does not work with these people.