Golly gosh what a morning you’re having, so sorry you’re going through this. You’re not wrong here. He sounds very entitled and very controlling.Let’s face it, even if you hadn’t felt tired or made an expression he’d probably have found some fault somewhere else to react to. Do you think is threats of violence will transpire into real violence? Threats are not ok, but if there’s even a small chance he’ll act on those threats use today to pack a bag and get somewhere safe!