I don’t even know where to start. I am so angry with him. I just want to curse and swear about him. At him. He has destroyed our young adult children. They are all wrecked. He has leant on them, made them feel responsible for him, and yet disrespected them by telling everyone about any difficulties they are encountering, including my family. Of course his rhetoric is that I have not only left him but I’ve left them too. Which of course is rubbish. I have left their home and they are sad about that but I have not left them. I don’t go about telling all my friends my side of the story, so when they hear his that’s the only version they have. I just wish he’d shut up. Stop. I’m not playing this game. Wake up (detail removed by Moderator) man. You have destroyed me and now you are destroying your children. My children. My babies. He genuinely believes his own version of events. He is utterly deluded.