Hello,
I am new here and looking for a little advice please. I separated from my ex partner a lie of years ago however we have children together so need to remain in contact. I have a womens aid worker and I have counselling once a week. I am struggling with how he still manages to make me feel terrible about myself. Last night I received messages from him telling me I need to give him money each month because he (detail removed by moderator) and when I refused this he was messaging me nasty things that I am a bad mum. He had went (detail removed by moderator). I asked him to stop and leave me alone but he just kept messaging putting me down. I have blocked him from messaging me but I need to be able to have contact in case of an emergency with the children. I just don’t know how to make him stop and leave me in peace. I feel like he is not happy unless I am unhappy. He does this everytime there is an occasion, family birthday etc and I just don’t know where this will end or when. It is draining. Can anyone give any advice please?