I have just left my abusive husband and he also is begging me to come back and he wants to be friends as well. I do not like his idea about friendships, I want totally get rid of him. He wasn’t a friend with me for decades but he wants it now. I think this is kind of manipulation but I also do not know how to deal with such situation so I will listen to the lovely ladies who can give us some support how to get rid of him totally from our lives.