Hi Hun
Sorry to hear of the scenario u are in, these men can drive us to the point of a breakdown, have u considered getting an occupation order where he has toleave the house and u get to stay cause of kids, if this is not option, i would strongly advise you to call the helpline and get in touch with support agenciwa that can offer u the right support.
THese men put us in the worst scenario, this is why we need support to make a plan