My partner is being nice again and points out all the things he’s done differently/healthy (detail removed by moderator).
This time I’m not falling for it again. He’s even said he’s proud of me when I told him I didn’t want to go ahead with something big we were going to do, he said he’s happy I told him. I have a feeling he’s going to revert back to the old pattern , maybe a bit more extreme. I’m feeling stronger. I’ll keep building my knowledge. I want to tell my GP about my situation but he’s male, and although its silly because in my mind I walked out from abusive family home into an abusive relationship. So for all I know my doctor could be an abusive person himself. But it might be worth a try.