I wouldn’t suggest contacting him at all. I let my abuser know I had reported him as a show of strength. He didn’t give a d**n. I got no reaction. And when he was arrested he denied it all so I am sure he was well prepared with a story considering I told him.
Don’t contact him, it’s not worth it. You won’t get the reaction you want!
Why did you withdraw from carrying it over may I ask? Hope you are safe and happy! x