After months he has finally been to look at a place to move into after having been threatened with my solicitor looking at getting an order to remove him from the property. He has actually said its acceptable and that he will be moving out soon!!! Aparently me spending money from the joint account on necessities for the kids meant i was spending too much of “his” money and it is more important to him to have that money than it is to stay. Finally an end is in sight!!!