Absolutely loving a structured life my way

[Good samaritan]

For the first time in quite a while I feel that life is my oyster once again. I’m feeling positive about the future as time goes on. The only downside is I’ve lost the confidence to talk to men altogether now. There are 3 really friendly guys on the same course as me and it had made me feel a bit intimidated. Other than that life is feeling a lot better now

[Serenity]

So happy for you, Good Samaritan.

I have found that structure helps me too. My ex was so haphazard. He enjoyed creating chaos and wrecking peace, so peace and structure are so important to me now.

I would say focus upon growing and gaining in strength. Enjoy chatting with people on an equal level. A relationship will develop with the right person, and you can take it at your own pace. Don’t allow anyone to rush you.

And don’t forget that you are just as good as anyone else! x

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