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Atsah.
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30th August 2024 at 11:04 am #171059
Karisqq
ParticipantOne of the reason I feel angry and unfair about abuse is that abusers always hurt the victims without a consequence, they even feel happy when they successfully manipulate the victim. Meanwhile, the victim didn’t do anything wrong but have to suffer the pain on their own and find ways out themselves. Why we have to suffer all these when it’s not our fault but the abuser?
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3rd September 2024 at 10:22 am #171117
Bluebirds
ParticipantI’m having trouble with this. Seems to of gotten away with ruining me mentally whilst he prances around like the victim/nice guy.
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3rd September 2024 at 5:05 pm #171128
Rainbowsandflowers
ParticipantSociety has a long way to go before abuse is taken seriously.
Things have gotten better for abuse victims over time, but they are not yet where they should be.
I think that alot of abuse happens in private so its almost impossible to prove
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6th September 2024 at 4:19 pm #171197
Funduro
ParticipantI struggle with the injustice of abusive men getting away with it. It’s such a toxic scary world because of these men. Wolves in sheep’s clothing. I doubt I’ll ever date again after two scary abusive relationships and (detail removed by Moderator) years of sexual harassment and creepy racism from men. I feel glad I won’t have to be a house skivvy 🙂 feel happy I didn’t have kids with an abuser. I feel happy I can lock my door and keep the patriarchy out. We have to focus on self love and eventually we won’t think about the abusive rank men who used and abused us for fun
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10th September 2024 at 11:38 pm #171277
Teaandtoast
ParticipantI always think the same. But then the law of attraction states that what you put out you get back. I don’t see this happening to abusive guys and my family who are also extremely abusive.
They fake their niceness to everyone, smear my name etc. It’s literally like being surrounded by a circle of bullied who push you in every direction constantly trying to get you to fail and feel pain and when you try and do something they are there to laugh, b***h and spread their version of events around anyone who will listen and no one will talk directly to me or support me in any shape or form (emotionally).
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19th October 2024 at 10:44 pm #171865
Atsah
ParticipantI agree they never are punished.my ex is well off because he never spends any money.has a house without a mortgage, new car etc etc .after many years of abuse and then finally leaving i had hardly anything.i had to start from scratch and now many years on i still have a mortgage as i had to take out another one as majority of my money when on court costs.he doesn’t suffer like i do on a daily basis and have recently had to go back to having medication and therapy again.i struggle with money every month.i have damp all thru my flat because i don’t have proper heating etc. It really isn’t fair for any of us.he wrecked my life and has not ever been held to justice!
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