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    • #171059
      Karisqq
      Participant

      One of the reason I feel angry and unfair about abuse is that abusers always hurt the victims without a consequence, they even feel happy when they successfully manipulate the victim. Meanwhile, the victim didn’t do anything wrong but have to suffer the pain on their own and find ways out themselves. Why we have to suffer all these when it’s not our fault but the abuser?

    • #171117
      Bluebirds
      Participant

      I’m having trouble with this. Seems to of gotten away with ruining me mentally whilst he prances around like the victim/nice guy.

    • #171128
      Rainbowsandflowers
      Participant

      Society has a long way to go before abuse is taken seriously.

      Things have gotten better for abuse victims over time, but they are not yet where they should be.

      I think that alot of abuse happens in private so its almost impossible to prove

    • #171197
      Funduro
      Participant

      I struggle with the injustice of abusive men getting away with it. It’s such a toxic scary world because of these men. Wolves in sheep’s clothing.  I doubt I’ll ever date again after two scary abusive relationships and (detail removed by Moderator) years of sexual harassment and creepy racism from men. I feel glad I won’t have to be a house skivvy 🙂 feel happy I didn’t have kids with an abuser. I feel happy I can lock my door and keep the patriarchy out. We have to focus on self love and eventually we won’t think about the abusive rank men who used and abused us for fun

    • #171277
      Teaandtoast
      Participant

      I always think the same. But then the law of attraction states that what you put out you get back. I don’t see this happening to abusive guys and my family who are also extremely abusive.

      They fake their niceness to everyone, smear my name etc. It’s literally like being surrounded by a circle of bullied who push you in every direction constantly trying to get you to fail and feel pain and when you try and do something they are there to laugh, b***h and spread their version of events around anyone who will listen and no one will talk directly to me or support me in any shape or form (emotionally).

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