Hi Ladies, not sure whether I am just being paranoid! This (detail removed by moderator) a few incidents have occurred in middle of night. Things being moved in the garden, gates left open but nothing taken. One incident woke my young child who was screaming as she heard banging on her window. This also coincides with receiving the paper copy of the final court order of no contact. Obviously this has disturbed me somewhat and cannot sleep. Do I just ignore it and wait for something else?
Speak to local domestic abuse officers. Maybe get them to swing by on nightshift and take a look. Victim support sometimes have funding for cameras and motion sensor lighting which are fairly cheap anyway. Trust your gut.
I would agree with the the previous advice, its always worth logging anything like this with the police just so they have it on record. Banging on your child’s window does not sound like you being paranoid to me, as well as the other strange things you have noticed.