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    • #17869

      Hi all,
      He found (detail removed by Moderator) but the experience in court is bring me so low. I’m broken down again.. Back to square one..

    • #17870

      What punishment did he get?

    • #17871

      Not decided yet. Will be decided in future..

    • #17873

      Do you know when? Well done MP.🙋❤

    • #17876

      Yes they let me know the date but not the what kind of punishment. Funnily I don’t feel happy at all. I don’t know how I feel but definitely not good. I’m confused, shouldn’t I feel better? Why making me be in bad stage?

    • #17885

      Hi there, when mine was found guilty I immediately felt sorry for him, until the woman said well how would you feel if he’d been found not guilty. I would have been devastated. He’s still in your head. It’s very very difficult to get a guilty verdict. There’s an awful emotional trauma that hits you but after a couple days you will see things differently. Take time to heal. Well done for setting a good example for other women to follow. The more abusers that are prosecuted, the more the community gets to see that they will not be tolerated. That’s a huge unpleasantness you can put behind you now x
      In my experience, don’t expect too much from sentencing x all mine got was a (detail removed by Moderator) but at least he has a criminal record. He will think twice before abusing again x

    • #17922

      Thank you KIP,
      I don’t expect anything but just to do the right thing, this just life. What I have been through it’s just how it’s suppose to be. Before I went to court I make sure it’s not because revenge or anger. I did that successfully after long battle with my self, try to understand everything. Yes I did stood up for my self but not only for my self I know how he is, he wouldn’t stop because all this time he get away with it but he will think about it now. I know that I have to do something for society.
      I feel so awful after the court but I’m sure it is just one step back but I will make sure I am going to keep moving forwards for better future.

    • #17924

      I agree with kip, he deserves a criminal record & you deserve a happy life

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